Is Marriage Good For You?
Generally, yes, according to David Popenoe, a sociology professor and co-chair of the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University. In an article posted on the Discovery Health website, Dr. Popenoe exposes the benefits and myths around marriage. Marriage Myth 2: Having children typically brings a married couple closer together and increases marital happiness. Fact: Many studies have shown that the arrival of the first baby commonly has the effect of pushing the mother and father farther apart, and bringing stress to the marriage. However, couples with children have a slightly lower rate of divorce than childless couples.
So what are the benefits?
More wealth for women and better health for men, and more frequent and more satisfying sex for both genders, compared to unmarrieds.
What about the myths? Well, here’s one Purple Women™ can identify with:
Currently, divorce rates hover just below 50 percent of first marriages in the United States.
So how do modern marriages compare to those of our parents? Popenoe observed that modern marriages are not any happier: "Some studies have found in recent marriages, compared to those of 20 or 30 years ago, significantly more work-related stress, more marital conflict and less marital interaction."
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